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July 2012

Katrina Kaif

Katrina Kaif (Katrina Turquotte) is a Bollywood actress and model who mainly appears in Indian film . She is one of the hottest and best actress in the Bollywood film Industry. She was voted for sexiest women in the World by FHM Fashion Magazine. Katrina kaif debut her acting with movie Boom in the year 2003.

Katrina did some fantastic movies like Namastey London (2007), New York (2009), Ajab Prem Ki Ghazab Kahani (2009), Rajneeti (2010), Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara (2011), Mere Brother Ki Dulhan (2012) and others. She was nominated for Filmfare Award for Mere Brother Ki Dulhan (2012) movie in the category of best actress.

Katrina Kaif

Katrina Kaif also nominated for the Special Award (Star Plus Hottest Pair) with Hrithik Roshan for Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara in 2012 and nominated for Popular Award in the category of best actress for Raajneeti in 2010. Recently she completed her upcoming movie Ek Tha Tiger (2012).Here is some wallpapers of Katrina Kaif.

Katrina Kaif

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Katrina Kaif is a Bollywood actress and model who mainly appears in Indian film. She is one of the hottest and best actress in the Bollywood film Industry. She was voted for sexiest women in the World by FHM Fashion Magazine. Katrina kaif debut her acting with movie Boom in the year 2003. Here is some wallpapers collection of Katrina Kaif.

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The Dark Knight Rises Movie (2012)

The Dark Knight Rises is a action and thriller movie that is based on a superhero character, directed by Christopher Nolan. This movie is the sequel to Batman Begins and The Dark Knight, and this is the third and final installment in Christopher Nolan's Batman film trilogy.

There are some famous actors and actresses casting this film, Christian Bale played the leading role of Batman, Gary Oldman as Commissioner Gordon, Tom Hardy as Bane, Anne Hathaway as Selina and others.

This movie was distributed by Waner Bros. Picture and world premiere was 16th July, 2012 in New York, whereas this movie was released on July 20, 2012 in United States. This movie already get huge positive response and review from critics and audience, there is no doubt that this is one of the greatest movie in this current year.

IMDb Ranking - 9.0/10

Christian Bale as Batman in The Dark Knight Rises Movie

Anne Hathaway in The Dark Knight Rises Movie

Christian Bale and Anne Hathaway in The Dark Knight Rises Movie

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Anne Hathaway in The Dark Knight Rises Movie

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The Dark Knight Rises Official Trailer 2012

One very sad and shocking news is 12 people killed and injured many people by a gunman during a midnight show of this movie on July 20, 2012 in Aurora, Colorado.
Police arrest one suspect named James Holmes who agreed about this incidence and identified himself as the Joker. This is most pathetic and tragic night for all the audience who was present at the time of show.

Jealousy is a Killer: How to Break Free from Your Jealous Feelings.

Jealousy is a killer. Relationships end because of jealous conflicts and people kill other people because they are jealous.

Imagine this :-

You are at a party and someone is friendly and you smile. Your partner thinks that you are betraying her. Or your partner tells you a funny story about a former lover and you feel threatened. You feel the anger and the anxiety rising inside you and you don�t know what to do.

Susan could identify with this. She would glare at her partner, trying to send him a �message� that she was really annoyed and hurt. She hoped he would get the message. At times she would withdraw into pouting, hoping to punish him for showing an interest in someone else. But it didn�t work. He just felt confused.
At other times Susan would ask him if she still found her attractive. Was he getting bored with her? Was she his type? At first, he would reassure her, but then---with repeated demands for her for more reassurance---he began to wonder why she felt so insecure. Maybe she wasn�t the right one for him.

And when things got more difficult for Susan, she would yell at him, �Why don�t you go home with her? It�s obvious you want to!�

These kinds of jealous conflicts can end a relationship.

But, if you are jealous, does this mean that there is something terribly wrong with you?

My colleague, Dennis Tirch, and I just published a paper on jealousy---and how to handle it. Click here to get a copy of the article that appeared in the International Journal of Cognitive Therapy. We describe a step-by-step approach to helping people cope with their jealousy.
Let's look at what is going on when you are jealous and how you can handle it.

Jealousy is angry agitated worry.

When we are jealous we worry that our partner might find someone else more appealing and we fear that he or she will reject us. Since we feel threatened that our partner might find someone more attractive, we may activate jealousy as a way to cope with this threat. We may believe that our jealousy may keep us from being surprised, help us defend our rights, and force our partner to give up interests elsewhere. Similar to worry, jealousy may be a �strategy� that we use so that we can figure out what is going wrong or learn what our partner �really feels�. We may also think that our jealousy can motivate us to give up on the relationship�so that we don�t get hurt any more. If you are feeling jealous, it�s important to ask yourself what you hope to gain by your jealousy. We view jealousy as a coping strategy.
Similar to other forms of worry, jealousy leads us to focus only on the negative. We interpret our partner�s behavior as reflecting a loss of interest in us or a growing interest in someone else: �He finds her attractive� or �He is yawning because I am boring�. Like other forms of worry, jealousy leads us to take things personally and to mind-read negative emotions in other people: �She�s getting dressed up to attract other guys�.

Jealousy can be an adaptive emotion.

People have different reasons�in different cultures---for being jealous. But jealousy is a universal emotion. Evolutionary psychologist David Buss in The Dangerous Passion makes a good case that jealousy has evolved as a mechanism to defend our interests. After all, our ancestors who drove off competitors were more likely to have their genes survive. Indeed, intruding males (whether among lions or humans) have been known to kill off the infants or children of the displaced male. Jealousy was a way in which vital interests could be defended.
We believe that it is important to normalize jealousy as an emotion. Telling people that �You must be neurotic if you are jealous� or �You must have low self-esteem� will not work. In fact, jealousy�in some cases�may reflect high self-esteem: �I won�t allow myself to be treated this way�.

Jealousy may reflect your higher values

Psychologists---especially psychoanalysts---have looked at jealousy as a sign of deep-seated insecurities and personality defects. We view jealousy as a much more complicated emotion. In fact, jealousy may actually reflect your higher values of commitment, monogamy, love, honesty, and sincerity. You may feel jealous because you want a monogamous relationship and you fear that you will lose what is valuable to you. We find it helpful to validate these values in our patients who are jealous.

Some people may say, �You don�t own the other person�. Of course, this is true---and any loving relationship with mutuality is based on freedom. But it is also based on choices that two free people make. If your partner freely chooses to go off with someone else, then you may rest assured that you have good reasons to feel jealous. We don�t own each other, but we may make affirmations about our commitment to each other.

But if your higher values are based on honesty, commitment and monogamy, your jealousy may jeopardize the relationship. You are in a bind. You don�t want to give up on your higher values---but you don�t want to feel overwhelmed by your jealousy.

Jealous feelings are different from jealous behaviors

Just as there is a difference between feeling angry and acting in a hostile way, there is a difference between feeling jealous and acting on your jealousy. It�s important to realize that your relationship is more likely to be jeopardized by your jealous behavior---such as continual accusations, reassurance-seeking, pouting, and acting-out. Stop and say to yourself, �I know that I am feeling jealous, but I don�t have to act on it.�
Notice that it is a feeling inside you. But you have a choice of whether you act on it.
What choice will be in your interest?

Accept and observe your jealous thoughts and feelings
When you notice that you are feeling jealous, take a moment, breathe slowly, and observe your thoughts and feelings. Recognize that jealous thoughts are not the same thing as a REALITY. You may think that your partner is interested in someone else, but that doesn�t mean that he really is. Thinking and reality are different.

You don�t have to obey your jealous feelings and thoughts.

Notice that your feeling of anger and anxiety may increase while you stand back and observe these experiences. Accept that you can have an emotion�and allow it to be. You don�t have to �get rid of the feeling�. We have found that mindfully standing back and observing that a feeling is there can often lead to the feeling weakening on its own.

Recognize that uncertainty is part of every relationship

Like many worries, jealousy seeks certainty. �I want to know for sure that he isn�t interested in her�. Or, �I want to know for sure that we won�t break up�. Ironically, some people will even precipitate a crisis in order to get the certainty. �I�ll break off with her before she breaks off with me!�
But uncertainty is part of life and we have to learn how to accept it. Uncertainty is one of those limitations that we can�t really do anything about. You can never know for sure that your partner won�t reject you. But if you accuse, demand and punish, you might create a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Examine your assumptions about relationships

Your jealousy may be fueled by unrealistic ideas about relationships. These may include beliefs that past relationships (that your partner had) are a threat to your relationship. Or you may believe that �My partner should never be attracted to anyone else�. You may also believe that your emotions (of jealousy and anxiety) are a �sign� that there is a problem. We call this �emotional reasoning��and it is often a very bad way to make decisions.
Or you may have problematic beliefs about how to feel more secure. For example, you may believe that you can force your partner to love you�or force him or her to lose interest in someone else. You may believe that withdrawing and pouting will send a message to your partner---and lead him to try to get closer to you. But withdrawing may lead your partner to lose interest.
Sometimes your assumptions about relationships are affected by your childhood experiences or past intimate relationships. If your parents had a difficult divorce because your father left your mother for someone else, you may be more prone to believe that his may happen to you. Or you may have been betrayed in a recent relationship and you now think that your current relationship will be a replay of this.
You may also believe that you have little to offer�who would want to be with you? If your jealousy is based on this belief, then you might examine the evidence for and against this idea. For example, one woman thought she had little to offer. But when I asked her what she would want in an ideal partner---intelligence, warmth, emotional closeness, creativity, fun, lots of interests---she realized that she was describing herself! If she were so undesirable, then why would she see herself as an ideal partner?

Use effective relationship skills

You don�t have to rely on jealousy and jealous behavior to make your relationship more secure. You can use more effective behavior. This includes becoming more rewarding to each other--- �catch your partner doing something positive�. Praise each other, plan positive experiences with each other, and try to refrain from criticism, sarcasm, labeling, and contempt. Learn how to share responsibility in solving problems---use �mutual problem solving skills�. Set up �pleasure days� with each other by developing a �menu� of positive and pleasurable behaviors you want from each other. For example, you can say, �Let�s set up a day this week that will be your pleasure day and a day that will be my pleasure day�. Make a list of pleasant and simple behaviors you want from each other: �I�d like a foot-rub, talk with me about my work, let�s cook a meal together, let�s go for a walk in the park�.

Jealousy seldom makes relationships more secure. Practicing effective relationship behaviors is often a much better alternative.

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The Amazing Spider-Man (2012) Movie

The Amazing Spider-Man 2012 is a action, fantasy and thriller movie directed by Marc Webb and based on the comic book The Amazing Spider-Man by Stan Lee and Steve Ditko. This movie is basically plotted for a superhero character by Peter Parker who lost his parents when he was young and tried to find out some clue about his parents matter.

This movie is starring by Andrew Garfield, Emma Stone, Rhys Ifans, Sally Field , Denis Leary and others. The Amazing Spider-Man was released in United States on 3rd July, 2012 and achieve great response from audience, film critics and others.

The Amazing Spider-Man was nominated for Teen Choice Award in the category of Choice Movie Villain, Choice Summer Movie Star(both Male and Female) and Choice Summer Movie(Action Adventure). This movie already makes a great reputation and undoubtedly this is one of the best movie in this year.
IMDb Rating- 7.6/10

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Andrew Garfield in The Amazing Spider-Man 2012 Movie

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Salma Hayek in Frida (2002) Movie

Frida is a biography, drama, and romance film which is based on the personal and professional life of Frida Kahlo. This movie was directed by Julie Taymor and produced by Sarah Green and Salma Hayek.

Frida was released in the year of 2002 and starring by Salma Hayek, Alfred Molina, Antonio Benderes and others. Salma Hayek played the main character of Frida Kahlo who is a painter and was nominated for Oscar for best actress in 2003 also won Imagen Award award for best actress.

Frida won the Oscar award in the category of best makeup and best music. Salma Hayek also did the soundtrack for this movie "La Bruja", "El Cascabel" in 2002.