It's an exciting feeling to love someone and be attached in many ways, it seems like everyday is a happy day and you live it with positive thoughts. But, sometimes it does not always end up in a good way. Breaking-up with someone who you really love could be the worst feeling a person can meet. It can be inevitable that a lot of not-so-good things that run into your mind and you end up thinking to give up on love.
Might as well think again, parting way can be a common scenarios that comes to a relationship, but you don't have give up on it easily. It can be okay to feel the pain, anger and in denial for some time, but don't deprive yourself to love a again.
Here are some reason it's better to give yourself another chance at love after a painful break-up.
1. It's not yet the end of the world-
many might think that once they parted ways with their loved one it can be the end of the world for them. It will be that hard to rise again and see life on a brighter side. At some point to break-up does not always mean end of everything, sometimes it becomes your wake-up call and realize a lot of things that you've lacked before.
2. Give yourself a chance to be happy again-
to end up locking yourself in a room is not helpful at all. It is okay to cry and hide for some time, but it is never okay to punish or blame yourself on why your relationship didn't work at all. Remember that "when one door closes, another open" who know meeting a new love can help you put back those smiles again. You don't have to be miserable in the end, you just have to take chances one way or another and enjoy every moment of it.
3. You deserve to love and be loved again -
everyone deserves second chances, especially when it comes to love. You might experience hurt at first, but it doesn't mean that you have to stop on it. It's possible to take some rest, think and love again. Don't be afraid to do it, cause everyone deserves to be love and be loved in return. It might not be that easy, but what is more important is that you made it possible and you take chances on it, no regrets in the end.
4. You'll not gain anything if you still hold on to your past love -
once it's over, it's over stop clinging and begging to get back together for you may just look like a pathetic one. Stand up, think and live like you haven't experience any problems at all. Think of your break-up as a way for you to discover yourself and meet someone who might eventually love you more than your past love.
5. Giving love another chance is a sign that you've moved on -
it is hard to move on, but if there is someone who will help you to move on it would be better because in that way you can say that there is nothing to be bitter about breaking up with someone. You move on and you take another chance in love is simply a win-win situation for anyone. It may not be true love, but eventually it will develop and you don't have to rush on it anyways.
Sometimes you realize the true value of love when you've undergone the painful stage because you tend to think of ways on how to get better and learn from that painful experience. There can be no assurance of meeting new love after but take some chances cause it can help you heal fast and forget all the painful experiences.
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Might as well think again, parting way can be a common scenarios that comes to a relationship, but you don't have give up on it easily. It can be okay to feel the pain, anger and in denial for some time, but don't deprive yourself to love a again.
Here are some reason it's better to give yourself another chance at love after a painful break-up.
1. It's not yet the end of the world-
many might think that once they parted ways with their loved one it can be the end of the world for them. It will be that hard to rise again and see life on a brighter side. At some point to break-up does not always mean end of everything, sometimes it becomes your wake-up call and realize a lot of things that you've lacked before. 2. Give yourself a chance to be happy again-
to end up locking yourself in a room is not helpful at all. It is okay to cry and hide for some time, but it is never okay to punish or blame yourself on why your relationship didn't work at all. Remember that "when one door closes, another open" who know meeting a new love can help you put back those smiles again. You don't have to be miserable in the end, you just have to take chances one way or another and enjoy every moment of it.
3. You deserve to love and be loved again -
everyone deserves second chances, especially when it comes to love. You might experience hurt at first, but it doesn't mean that you have to stop on it. It's possible to take some rest, think and love again. Don't be afraid to do it, cause everyone deserves to be love and be loved in return. It might not be that easy, but what is more important is that you made it possible and you take chances on it, no regrets in the end.
4. You'll not gain anything if you still hold on to your past love -
once it's over, it's over stop clinging and begging to get back together for you may just look like a pathetic one. Stand up, think and live like you haven't experience any problems at all. Think of your break-up as a way for you to discover yourself and meet someone who might eventually love you more than your past love.
5. Giving love another chance is a sign that you've moved on -
it is hard to move on, but if there is someone who will help you to move on it would be better because in that way you can say that there is nothing to be bitter about breaking up with someone. You move on and you take another chance in love is simply a win-win situation for anyone. It may not be true love, but eventually it will develop and you don't have to rush on it anyways.
Sometimes you realize the true value of love when you've undergone the painful stage because you tend to think of ways on how to get better and learn from that painful experience. There can be no assurance of meeting new love after but take some chances cause it can help you heal fast and forget all the painful experiences.
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Luz Barnett is a student taking up Degree in Journalism, a part-time writer for bestessays.com for quite some time. A hopeless romantic who love to read books and watch chick-flicks. She loves to travel and passionate in the field of writing and photography.
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