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Salma Hayek Jim�nezBorn: September 2, 1966Place: Coatzacoalcos, Veracruz, Mexico.Occupation: Actress, DirectorSpouse: Fran�ois-Henri Pinault. Salma Hayek is a Mexican and American actress, director and also producer. Salma Hayek was nominated for many awards and received Academy Award nomination for the best actress in Frida. 
Movies: Midaq Alley (1995), Desperado (1995), Fair Game (1995), Fled (1996), From Dusk Till Dawn (1996),Fools Rush In (1997), Breaking Up (1997), 54 (1998), Dogma(1999), No One Writes to the Colonel (1999), Wild Wild West (1999), Timecode (2000), Chain of Fools (2000), Living It Up (2000), Hotel (2001), Frida (2002), Once Upon a Time in Mexico (2003), After the Sunset (2004), Bandidas (2006), Ask the Dust (2006), Lonely Hearts (2006), Cirque du Freak: The Vampire's Assistant (2009), Americano (2011), As Luck Would Have It (2011), Savages (2012).
Soundtracks: Desperado ("Qu�date Aqu�") in 1995, 54 ("Lamento Borincano") in 1998, Frida ("La Bruja", "El Cascabel") in 2002, Once Upon a Time in Mexico ("Siente Mi Amor") in 2003.Awards:Salma Hayek received many awards and nominations. Here are the details of some awards: she won Golden Eagle Award in 1998, won Imagen Award award for best actress in Frida (2002), she also Won Golden Camera for best international actress for Frida(2002), she won Blockbuster Entertainment Award for supporting actress in Wild Wild West (1999) and she was nominated for Oscar in the best actress category for Frida in 2002.
Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment. Love is also a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection; and "the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another".Love is central to many religions, as in the Christian phrase, "God is love" or Agape in the Canonical gospels.Love may also be described as actions towards others (or oneself) based on compassion, or as actions towards others based on affection.In English, love refers to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from pleasure ("I loved that meal") to interpersonal attraction ("I love my partner"). "Love" may refer specifically to the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love, to the sexual love of eros, to the emotional closeness of familial love, or the platonic love that definesfriendship, to the profound oneness or devotion of religious love.This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in thecreative arts.Love may be understood as part of the survival instinct, a function to keep human beings together against menaces and to facilitate the continuation of the species.
Definitions
The word "love" can have a variety of related but distinct meanings in different contexts. Often, other languages use multiple words to express some of the different concepts that English relies mainly on "love" to encapsulate; one example is the plurality of Greek words for "love." Cultural differences in conceptualizing love thus make it doubly difficult to establish any universal definition.Although the nature or essence of love is a subject of frequent debate, different aspects of the word can be clarified by determining what isn't love. As a general expression of positive sentiment (a stronger form of like), love is commonly contrasted with hate (or neutral apathy); as a less sexual and more emotionally intimate form of romantic attachment, love is commonly contrasted with lust; and as an interpersonal relationship with romantic overtones, love is sometimes contrasted with friendship, although the word love is often applied to close friendships.
Fraternal love (Prehispanic sculpture from 250�900 A.D., of Huastec origin). Museum of Anthropology in Xalapa, Veracruz, Mexico.When discussed in the abstract, love usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience felt by a person for another person. Love often involves caring for or identifying with a person or thing (cf. vulnerability and care theory of love), including oneself (cf. narcissism). In addition to cross-cultural differences in understanding love, ideas about love have also changed greatly over time. Some historians date modern conceptions of romantic love to courtly Europe during or after the Middle Ages, although the prior existence of romantic attachments is attested by ancient love poetry.Because of the complex and abstract nature of love, discourse on love is commonly reduced to a thought-terminating clich�, and there are a number of common proverbs regarding love, from Virgil's "Love conquers all" to The Beatles' "All You Need Is Love". St. Thomas Aquinas, following Aristotle, defines love as "to will the good of another." Bertrand Russell describes love as a condition of "absolute value," as opposed to relative value. Philosopher Gottfried Leibniz said that love is "to be delighted by the happiness of another."Love is sometimes referred to as being the "international language", overriding cultural and linguistic divisions.
Impersonal love
A person can be said to love an object, principle, or goal if they value it greatly and are deeply committed to it. Similarly, compassionate outreach and volunteer workers' "love" of their cause may sometimes be borne not of interpersonal love, but impersonal love coupled with altruism and strong spiritual or political convictions.People can also "love" material objects, animals, or activities if they invest themselves in bonding or otherwise identifying with those things. If sexual passion is also involved, this condition is called paraphilia.
Interpersonal love
Interpersonal love refers to love between human beings. It is a more potent sentiment than a simple liking for another. Unrequited love refers to those feelings of love that are not reciprocated. Interpersonal love is most closely associated with interpersonal relationships. Such love might exist between family members, friends, and couples. There are also a number of psychological disorders related to love, such aserotomania.Throughout history, philosophy and religion have done the most speculation on the phenomenon of love. In the last century, the science of psychology has written a great deal on the subject. In recent years, the sciences of evolutionary psychology, evolutionary biology, anthropology, neuroscience, and biology have added to the understanding of the nature and function of love.
Biological basis
Biological models of sex tend to view love as a mammalian drive, much like hunger or thirst.Helen Fisher, a leading expert in the topic of love, divides the experience of love into three partly overlapping stages: lust, attraction, and attachment. Lust is the feeling of sexual desire; romantic attraction determines what partners mates find attractive and pursue, conserving time and energy by choosing; and attachment involves sharing a home, parental duties, mutual defense, and in humans involves feelings of safety and security.Three distinct neural circuitries, including neurotransmitters, and also three behavioral patterns, are associated with these three romantic styles.Lust is the initial passionate sexual desire that promotes mating, and involves the increased release of chemicals such as testosterone and estrogen. These effects rarely last more than a few weeks or months.Attraction is the more individualized and romantic desire for a specific candidate for mating, which develops out of lust as commitment to an individual mate forms. Recent studies in neuroscience have indicated that as people fall in love, the brain consistently releases a certain set of chemicals, including pheromones, dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin, which act in a manner similar to amphetamines, stimulating the brain's pleasure center and leading to side effects such as increased heart rate, loss of appetite and sleep, and an intense feeling of excitement. Research has indicated that this stage generally lasts from one and a half to three years.Since the lust and attraction stages are both considered temporary, a third stage is needed to account for long-term relationships. Attachment is the bonding that promotes relationships lasting for many years and even decades. Attachment is generally based on commitments such as marriage and children, or on mutual friendship based on things like shared interests. It has been linked to higher levels of the chemicalsoxytocin and vasopressin to a greater degree than short-term relationships have. Enzo Emanuele and coworkers reported the protein molecule known as the nerve growth factor (NGF) has high levels when people first fall in love, but these return to previous levels after one year.
Psychological basis
Psychology depicts love as a cognitive and social phenomenon. Psychologist Robert Sternberg formulated a triangular theory of love and argued that love has three different components: intimacy, commitment, and passion. Intimacy is a form in which two people share confidences and various details of their personal lives, and is usually shown in friendships and romantic love affairs. Commitment, on the other hand, is the expectation that the relationship is permanent. The last and most common form of love is sexual attraction and passion. Passionate love is shown in infatuation as well as romantic love. All forms of love are viewed as varying combinations of these three components. American psychologist Zick Rubin sought to define love by psychometrics in the 1970s. His work states that three factors constitute love: attachment, caring, and intimacy.Following developments in electrical theories such as Coulomb's law, which showed that positive and negative charges attract, analogs in human life were developed, such as "opposites attract." Over the last century, research on the nature of human mating has generally found this not to be true when it comes to character and personality�people tend to like people similar to themselves. However, in a few unusual and specific domains, such as immune systems, it seems that humans prefer others who are unlike themselves (e.g., with an orthogonal immune system), since this will lead to a baby that has the best of both worlds.[21] In recent years, various human bondingtheories have been developed, described in terms of attachments, ties, bonds, and affinities. Some Western authorities disaggregate into two main components, the altruistic and the narcissistic. This view is represented in the works of Scott Peck, whose work in the field of applied psychology explored the definitions of love and evil. Peck maintains that love is a combination of the "concern for the spiritual growth of another," and simple narcissism.In combination, love is an activity, not simply a feeling.Psychologist Erich Fromm maintained in his book "The art of loving" that love is not merely a feeling but is also actions, and that in fact, the "feeling" of love is superficial in comparison to ones commitment to love via a series of loving actions over time. In this sense, Fromm held that love is ultimately not a feeling at all, but rather is a commitment to, and adherence to, loving actions towards another, ones self, or many others, over a sustained duration.Fromm also described Love as a conscious choice that in its early stages might originate as an involuntary feeling, but which then later no longer depends on those feelings, but rather depends only on conscious commitment.Evolutionary basis
Evolutionary psychology has attempted to provide various reasons for love as a survival tool. Humans are dependent on parental help for a large portion of their lifespans comparative to other mammals. Love has therefore been seen as a mechanism to promote parental support of children for this extended time period. Another factor may be that sexually transmitted diseases can cause, among other effects, permanently reduced fertility, injury to the fetus, and increase complications during childbirth. This would favor monogamous relationships over polygamy.
Comparison of scientific models
Biological models of love tend to see it as a mammalian drive, similar to hunger or thirst.[15] Psychology sees love as more of a social and cultural phenomenon. There are probably elements of truth in both views. Certainly love is influenced by hormones (such as oxytocin), neurotrophins (such as NGF), and pheromones, and how people think and behave in love is influenced by their conceptions of love. The conventional view in biology is that there are two major drives in love: sexual attraction and attachment. Attachment between adults is presumed to work on the same principles that lead an infant to become attached to its mother. The traditional psychological view sees love as being a combination of companionate love and passionate love. Passionate love is intense longing, and is often accompanied by physiological arousal (shortness of breath, rapid heart rate); companionate love is affection and a feeling of intimacy not accompanied by physiological arousal.
Here are some beautiful tips for the lovers to melt the heart of their partner or love to make their relation and love more strong. These tips would help you to make your love more powerful and leads to happy and successful love life.
1. Ask her to dance.2. On windy days, brush wayward strands of hair from her eyes and mouth.3. When she�s coming down the street, across the room, or up the stairs to meet you, walk towards her as soon as you see her.
4. Kiss her between her shoulder blades when she turns her back to you to go to sleep.5. Put your arm around her when you introduce her to your friends and family.6. Grasp her hand when a scantily dressed, beautiful woman walks by.7. Call her when you�re feeling sad.8. Kiss her eyelids.9. Ask to see a picture of her when she was a child.10. Wash her from head to toe in the shower.11. If she�s crying on the phone, go over to her place. Immediately.13. Occasionally call her by her first and middle names.14. Buy her your favourite rock album of all time on vinyl.15. Order coffee for her, remembering exactly how she likes it.16. Undress her and put her to bed when she falls asleep in the car.17. Mention your upcoming anniversary before she does.18. Send her something in the mail. Anything!19. When she�s feeling insecure, stare into her eyes and tell her there is no-one in the world who could be as right for you as she is.20. Call her just before you get on the plane.21. Pick her clothes up off the floor.22. Try desperately to make her laugh when she�s feeling down.23. Take her to see your favourite sport live. Pay more attention to her than to the game.24. Touch her arm when you leave the table to go to the bathroom. Touch her again when you come back.25. Shave just before you see her. She�ll notice.26. Hug her when she gets jealous. Hug her hard.27. Worship her breasts.28. Give her jewellery.29. Hand her two towels when she gets out of the shower. (The second one is for her hair.)30. Ask her specific questions about her work.31. Keep her favourite cereal on hand.32. In the middle of a conversation, tell her you love her.33. Send her very expensive flowers when you screw up.34. Take her to a cabin with a fireplace. Build her a fire.35. Moan her name when she goes down on you.36. Read her a story when it�s her turn to drive during a long road trip.37. Offer to fix something at her place that you realise is broken.38. Notice when she�s wearing something new.39. Make love to her standing up, against a wall.40. Kiss her hand in front of your most die-hard bachelor buddies.Read the tips again & again and try to be practical. These tips surely enhance love in your love or partner. Women only need love, these are the ways she feels your love. Just show her love and win her heart.
Well sad to know that she rejected you. But why? What wrong did you do that made her reject you? Don't lose heart and get determined to find an absolutely stunning girlfriend but with a different strategy.Did you analyze why your first potential girlfriend reject you? Well there are some common mistakes that men make with women and do not realize them. I will tell you how to deal with women and avoid those mistakes to have the best woman in your arms.
When a girl rejects a guy, he may start pleading with her, or chase her and try to convince her that he is the best man she can ever have. but who are you to decide if you are the best? Accept the fact that convincing her that you really love her and will keep her happy will not make her feel attracted towards you. By telling her a few nice words, she will not start feeling what she hasn�t felt for you till date. So don�t waste time in chasing her, it will make her run away from you.
It is a proven fact that women like men who do not treat them well initially or say who do not give them much attention. Ever wondered why a girl pays less attention to you when you keep calling her, meeting her, listening to her or doing whatever she says? Now do the opposite and see how she comes to you running.You don�t have to be very nice with girls because they do not accept or reject guys on the basis of how nice they are. If you have noticed, attractive girls seem to like jerks who are not that good looking instead of good, nice guys. They will like any guy for whom they feel some level of attraction, even if he is not a handsome hunk. It is a natural feeling in girls that makes them attracted to guys. So being nice to girls will not solve your purpose, she will not start feeling attracted towards you.Many guys try to make their girls happy by seeking their approval in every small deal or work. Initially your girl may like this because it will make her feel important. Later on she will start feeling that youlack self-confidence and you need permission and approvals to begin any task or finish up a small thing.Here you will get negative points. As I said earlier also, girls do not like guys being very nice with them. You don�t have to treat her badly but you also don�t need to be extra nice with her. Be a man and do whatever you want to do without asking her. This also means that if you want to kiss her, just go ahead. Don�t wait for her to nod her head to say �yes you may kiss me.�The most common mistake almost all men do are buying gifts and flowers for a girl. When you do this again and again, girls get a signal: �It�s not easy for me to impress you. So let me try by bribing you a little. May be you will start liking me.� Okay girls love getting flowers and gifts but this will not change how she feels for you. Imagine yourself getting gifts and flowers from a girl whom you can�t even stand.
Would you accept her offer of dating her just because she brings nice gifts and flowers for you? So if you can�t do this, how do you expect girls to change their feelings in exchange for gifts and flowers? You need to show the girl that if she wants to accept you, she must accept you the way you are and you are not going to change your ways for her. This attitude will make her like you and meet you again and again.Look into the mirror and tell yourself � �I will make girls run after me. I have the attitude to do so.� When you say this to yourself, also follow it by keeping it in mind all the time. Why I am saying thisbecause when men see attractive women, they can�t control themselves.When you meet an attractive woman and start dating her, you must realize that before you, she must have dated other men also. She is so beautiful that men must be writing her letters, mails, text messages, expressing their love for her. And this is the biggest mistake men make when they express their feelings too early to a woman. This puts her off and she drops the idea of a relationship with such a man. So remember to give her compliments butdo not say how you feel for her too early in a relationship. Make her fall for you and then express your feelings for her.Desperation is never attractive to women. She may be hot, easily approachable but if you show your desperation to get in bed with her, she will reject you instantly. Also when you are talking to her, remember not to look at her cleavage or breast. Look into her eyes to make her feel that you like her.There are men who before even approaching a woman get nervous because of their looks and money power. Well I must clear this point that women do not think like men. They do not get attracted to men by just looking at them. If you need to impress her, you need to talk to her. If she likes your company, your sense of humour, she may well give you a chance to be her partner. Few women do give importance to looks but it still remains secondary to the overall personality of a man.Never let a woman decide what you want to do, where you want to go or what should be the next step.Women always want men to show their manliness when taking important decisions. A nice woman would always want to feel safe and protected when with her man. In such a situation if you ask her
what you must do next, how is she going to rely on you for her safety, security, happiness and future endeavors?Last but not the least, men must know how to behave in different situations. This is very important. If you keep guessing before her about your next move, she is going to get disappointed.Women almost always know what is on your mind. Your body language says it all. So you must not try to hide your feelings. If you feel like kissing her, she will know it and then if you don�t kiss her, she will find you weird.So act accordingly in different situations. And please do not act like college guys by conveying messages to her through her friends or your friends. Be bold enough to speak to her either face to face or over the phone.Hope you do not get rejected by a girl next time. These tips will surely help you in being with a girl for a long long time. All the Best!
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